So, my counterpoint to the argument that Ukraine shouldn't be admitted.
1: As a whole they have been trying to become more democratic, and less corrupt; hence why they elected Zelenskyy.
2: They are a European Country, and its the EU.
3: I feel there are some old biases at play here.
Or, the TL;DR Ukraine is reaching out its hand to become a part of something, but more, even without the invasion, they are reaching out for help
That said, while I'm ethnically European, and even now pictures make me homesick [I was born in W Germany], I'm not a citizen, I'm an american citizen.
[And as such, I think that we should be doing more to help, but well.... yeah]
*Also, I have not supported any of our wars [since I became old enough] except for the one where we were asked for help - and iirc, nato -did- help a non-NATO country in that fight, too....