I don't care about winter feasts but some of my family does and my best friend really does. Thanksgiving needs to be traditional wih turkey, stuffing, cranberry and the like. Christmas is less important food wise.
I kind of lump the holidays after Halloween through New Year’s Day together into what I’ve come to think of as the Meatmas Feasts because in my primary family that was the discussion center, which meats to have. Turkey for Thanksgiving obviously, the men in the family who hunted deer and elk would get a turkey tag and hunt a bird too...but often a ham could join in if we were having guests. When I referred to the mayo above it was indeed to tease Darnk but it’s true that it keeps a big ham shoulder moist until it’s time to glaze it. There’s heat and eat ham and then there’s bone-in ham that needs prep and actual cooking...I prefer the taste and texture of the latter. I’m probably ‘speaking’ to a group here that over 1/2 of you have cooked the latter many times though *grin*.
One time my grandmother did Cornish game hens for Thanksgiving and it was yummy but more trouble than it was worth she said, “and people like turkey just as well”...Christmas meant another turkey and sometimes a goose or rack of lamb additionally as my grandfather liked both, my grandmother did not so this was usually the only time she’d consider cooking either...then ham for New Year’s Day though duck could make an appearance too depending on who was hosting. If it was just a few people, sometimes we had a steak and baked potato for New Years. Black-eyed peas = luck if eaten on New Years Day.
My mother did not like cleaning the shot out of or dressing small game birds so we rarely had quail, dove or pheasant but I love quail. She never taught me to do it either, but I ordered quail recently and it was stuffed and dressed so that only the leg and wing bones were left. Which was easy to eat compared to the fried halves usually served and eaten like fried chicken. Later years and other people meant posole, tamales, a pork roast, enchiladas, stuffed savory sopaipillas, empanadas, menudo...oysters, pork chops and hoppin’ John with greens and Johnnycake for New Years.
Lots of people, lots of memories tied to these foods, some good, some bad, all satisfying.
I’m not sure yet what I’ll cook this year, I’ve gone traditional and then the opposite, fed small groups and large.
This year it’s my fiancé and myself alone so we can do as we like! Yumyum



