Let me bump this up a bit: do you think you're spending not enough time in SL, too much time, or just the right amount? What would you do if you had more time in either r/l or sl?
SL is entertainment.
In my early SL years I spent way to much time in there. I was totally addicted.
I don't have that anymore. SL is one of the possibilities to waist my spare time, nothing more nothing less.
At the moment during this lovely sports summer with the EC football, Wimbledon, Tour de France, The Olympics, a lot ot that spare time goes into watching TV. The last week I was more like minutes in SL than hours. That will be the same during the Olympics.
After that a lot depends on how the pandemic evolves. If possible this fall, I want to make a few visits to some historical cities close by, visit a few museums, a day at the sea, some shopping in Amsterdam, Brussels or Cologne, maybe even Paris, that kind of stuff. Then SL will be on the back burner a lot as well. If it is too risky to travel around for sight seeing and shopping, I will probably extend my SL time again.
So I'm spending the right amount of time in SL.
RL comes first (as it should IMHO).