I totally get the struggle. I went through the same thing trying to build a cute anime avatar from scratch.
For heads, you might wanna check out Utilizator’s Normie or Rikugou. They are classic picks for anime styles. also seen people use HimeDream or Kokoro heads lately, and they’re super expressive.
For full bento bodies, Kemono is a solid start if you want that soft, stylized shape. it pairs really well with anime heads too. just make sure the skins you grab are BOM-compatible or have appliers that match your head/face tones.
Marketplace has a ton of options, but I would also swing by in-world stores like Psychotica, Pink Fuel (for cute skins), or Ayashi (for hair!). and if you can, check out events like Crystal Heart, Okinawa, or Equal10—they often have anime-style items all in one spot.
Always demo stuff. anime proportions can be tricky to balance, especially when you're mixing brands.
Just sharing what worked for me—everyone’s setup might be a little different . Hope that helps a bit!