Vanity Fair is such a fantastic "Fashionista name" that she should go to a Fashionista. (and one with a large enough shopping budget to properly support her and their own avatar) Though I truly hope that you get to continue using your avatars for a LONG time to come.
My daughter has all the pass word to my 2 Avatars and my sisters. I leave it up to her what she will do. IF she wants to have an SL event then delete them it is find with me.
I'm very glad you are out of the woods and OK, Ryan. I had a cancer scare and surgery a few years ago so I know somewhat how it feels, no fun at all and then paranoia lingers, at least mine does...but we soldier on, right? Now is what we have each day.
Re: the question...I DO think you should leave her to SaveMe and also your doll to me. I'd take good care of her.
Meanwhile, we should get together take a few fun dolly fashion photos.
My second life account makes significant real-life income, so I am leaving it to my sister along with anything else I have that is of monetary value, such as stocks, bonds, and savings accounts. I imagine anyone else who makes over a certain threshold from second life considers doing this.