Bout time I responded in this thread.
Yes. Some of it is neo-vintage too.
Some ISON things can end up a bit into the "Bebe" end of things. (Bebe is a RL store.
Women's Fashion: Chic & Contemporary Clothing | bebe ) That might be a little bit too into the sexy side for some.
Ditto for Hilly, but she releases a LOT so you can probably find things you like.
While I like Just Because she has raised her hemlines recently and has released a pair of thigh high boots. She's suffering from what I call
"Neve" syndrome, where a designer raises her hemlines and skimpifies her stuff to increase the mass market appeal. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but can be if they do it too much and don't keep releasing more classic stuff.
Heads: Demo lots. As I've said, I was pressured by a friend to get my first one. She said I wasn't much of a fashionista if I didn't have one and that I needed to keep up. I hadn't found one I really liked yet, but picked up the least objectional one at that time. It still wasn't perfect for me, and in fact it was quite a few updates before certain issues I had with it got fixed. I actually stopped wearing it. My second head worked better for me because it was more classic. My third, which I currently wear is Bento and I finally look like pre-mesh CC in the head again.
I'm fairly satisfied with my current head, though yes I've got some pouty RBF, though I'm "Aristocratic" not bitchy. If I was to pick up a new head, it would (and will) probably be a Genus head.
Bodies and Shapes: I've been using the same shape since late July of 2006, modified over time. It was originally designed for SL runway/lingerie work by the creator. Over time I've made it shorter and added a touch of muscle. It is still very slender but more in a "catalog model" way. Think models for TahariASL, White House Black Market, Ann Taylor, or yes... Bebe.
Tahari ASL | Official Site | Premium Designer Women's Clothing Women's Clothing, Dresses, Tops, Pants, Petite & Plus Size - White House Black Market - White House Black Market ANN TAYLOR: Women's Clothing, Suits, Dresses, Cashmere, Sweaters, Petites
But that is what I WANT my avatar to look like. In general I'm a bit more classic than most, though I have Bebe-ized my wardrobe some over the past couple of years.
Clothing: You can find non-slutty clothing, even some Bebe-ish stores have some less slutty things. Keep your eyes open and if you see someone wearing something you like, immediately use the "What is she wearing HUD" on them. Which you should be doing regularly. Also if you do see a well dressed fashionista, check to see if she has a flickr, if so you can find OTHER things to buy. Also bloggers. Even though Strawberry Singh isn't blogging anymore you can read up her old posts that she did before she started doing too many videos to see where she shopped.
Here's a few more stores to check out:
Neve (formerly Coldlogic) I'd call them the LOFT of SL, though they have skimpified a touch as I've said. Lets just say that when Stacy London of the RL TV show What Not To Wear came into SL, she wore Coldlogic.
Thalia Heckroth
Belle Epoque
Dead Dollz (vintage/rockabilly/goth)
Tetra
Emery
Rowne might be described as designer resortwear/beachwear. It is actually classic, but will work best if you look like a model hanging out on some Mediterranean resort. Their RL equivalent would be perhaps the resort collection of fancy designers.
Fashionably Dead
Tres Blah
The Secret Store
Pixicat
Mutresse (though she sometimes fails on the color choices)