I've been randomly IMed from a couple of groups - one guy offered a TP. Thinking it was probably someone I met a long time ago and just forgot about, I accepted. The place probably wasn't his (it had a picture of a clearly lesbian couple out front when I cammed around outside), that was full of bdsm furniture. He sat on a sex rug and commanded me to sit down and I was like "wtf do you do this a lot?!"
Another asked me what I was wearing, then asked me to put some stockings on for her. I questioned this while looking her groups over - bunch of stocking fetish groups - and she got all defensive about randomly IMing people for pixel sex.
Both of their rhetoric was "it's just SL! It doesn't matter!" but like...consent matters? I didn't ask to be hit up for this shit? Like I'm open to finding someone on SL, and if you want to cyber, you do you, but don't just assume everyone's gonna be a pixelslut.